Saturday, March 12, 2011

Trapped in relationships!


There are times in life when we don't want to face the truth especially when it comes to relationships.
We know what the reality is, our brain has got it but our heart won't ever accept it. I am not talking of only the relationship between lovers but of all those relationships which we start and are not the blood relations.

Common ,let's face it! By just tying a Rakhi, no one becomes your brother, saying I love you does not make the other person your lover, calling some one a "friend" is not friendship, you actually have to feel it. That makes the difference, faking does not. Once you feel that you did a mistake: accept it. We get so emotional that we just can't put the reality into words even when we find that continuing the relationship is futile. We think that it might hurt the other person and we just can't let it go!

Mind you, you will be called the most unemotional person, you will be the person who has a heart made of stone, you will become the worst person on this earth , even the worst thing in whole of the universe, if you tell the other person what the truth is. Try and you will be blamed for not understanding the meaning if a relationship.

It's good to enter into relationships but they should not be dragged on even if we feel suffocated in them. We should be able to severe ties when the relationship is no more than just in words. There is no point in fooling ourselves when we know the truth.

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